
Why should we read a book about a derelict dad? Why read about a man who is an alcoholic and mostly absent husband? Is there anything positive, enlightening or even good that can be said about a man who shirked his duties to his family his entire life? Because Charles Bragg was out of his family’s life more than in it, his life could be resurrected and patched together only through the eyes and memories of others. Some of it is good. Some of it will make you hoppin’ mad. But most of what Bragg tells us about his dad’s life is just darn right sad.
Rick Bragg could have written a book about how he felt growing up poor and without his father. Instead he contrasts his rough-and-tumble life growing up poor and fatherless in a box-house, with very little room for all of the people trying to live in it in rural Alabama, with that of his stepson, whose pampered existence consists of two houses full of stuff, bible study classes, video games and gummy worms. Rick Bragg’s attempts to understand, even influence, his stepson’s view of life enable him to gain a different, maybe even better, perspective of his own father’s inability to be a father to him. And that, ultimately, allows him to grow and be a better father to his own son.
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Yeah, I wondered how he was possibly going to get anything good from his daddy. I just remember laughing when momma says, "not the face, not the teeth!" in All Over but the Shoutin' and he was nice enough to comply. I wouldn't want to lose my teeth either. :)
It's sad to know that Bragg's dad began drinking at 17 (I think) and he never looked back after that. What a waste of an entire life. I did feel bad for him, as well as his family, when they left him and went back home for the security of a government welfare check every month. It wasn't much, but it was more than he could be trusted to provide over the long haul. Pretty darn sad.
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